I am sure we have heard lots of vaginal looseness myths, so it is time to address this issue and bust the myths from the truths.
Myth 1 : Vaginal looseness is an indication that you are a good time girl
Truth : The vagina being a muscular tube will expand and stretch to accommodate whatever is inside it. When it is empty, the vagina walls touch each other.
In fact, having regular sex increase the muscle tone of the vagina and not decrease it.
Sex is a form of exercise. You can make love everyday for a year and it won’t make your vagina looser than it was before.
On the other hand abstaining from sex for a long time would not make your vagina any tighter.
Myth 2 : All Men Prefer a Tight Vagina
Truth : We assume that all men like a tight vagina. This is one of those vaginal looseness myths we have been conditioned to believe. Fact is in reality some men prefer a slightly loose vagina for easier penetration and harder and faster thrusting.
Case in point is my friend whose vagina is not as tight as before child birth. Her husband is much happier with her slightly loose vagina now and they have a much satisfying love life.
The men also plays a part in relation to the tightness of the vagina. If his penis size is below average, then it is hard to feel the friction and pleasure during your intimate moments. So ladies, don’t think that it is always your fault.
Myth 3 : It Is Always Good to Be Tight Than Loose
Truth : Far from it. It isn’t always a good thing for the woman. A tight vagina indicates that she is not sufficiently aroused yet. When your desire is ignited the vagina should naturally loosens, vaginal lubrication flows and the cervix opens up for easier penetration.
This means that your vagina should be looser and lubricated during penetration and not tight and dry. If it is than your partner might take it that you are not ready or do not want to make love.
Myth 4 : Smaller Girls have Tighter Vagina than Taller, Bigger Girls
Truth : As mentioned above our female genitalia is elastic, stretchable and expandable, sometimes to two times their size during sexual intercourse.
Body size is irrelevant. Smaller, thinner girls have smaller pelvic structure but is not an indication that they have smaller internal organs.
Regardless of size, some women are a little tight because they have a thicker hymen or their muscles contract with more force.
Myth 5 : Penetration and Childbirth Cause Vaginal Looseness
Truth : Our reproductive organ changes its size to embrace the object inside it, then it returns to its previous state after penetration. Since penis size is nowhere near the size of a full-term baby, penetration doesn’t make the vagina loose.
Similarly, child birth results in little changes.
However, slight changes might occur
when an incision is made through the perineum to enlarge the vagina to
ease delivery of the baby. The changes will be noticeable if you have
given birth to a large brood.
With the common vaginal looseness myths debunked, the problem of a loose vagina is more a state of our mind. If you are having a satisfying love life, then vaginal looseness should not be a cause for low self-esteem, depression or embarrassment
But, just as we exercise, take supplements and use facial products to stay youthful, why not do the same for our intimate area?
Regardless of whether there are any truths in the vaginal looseness myths, it
is always beneficial to do Kegel exercises and supplement with loose vagina
remedies for heightened sensations for both partners.
These can be in the form of :-
ST Virgin Cream which is topically applied to the opening of the vulva for instant moisturizing and vaginal tightening.
Manjakani Vaginal Tightening Pill which is an herbal supplement to restore vaginal tone and tightness and reduce excessive vaginal discharge.
If we religiously care for the youthfulness of our vagina as do for our body and face, sexual satisfaction should not be a problem no matter what age.Back to top
"I hesitated to try at first but the ST Virgin cream is comfortable and non sticky. It helps to lubricate and tighten. Satisfying."
"I can feel the tightening effect during intercourse. So does my partner. The cream is easy to apply and I was well lubricated during the whole intercourse. "